What is this? 2 + 2 = 5 or 2+2 = 3? Am I insane? Mad?
It means your relationships with society , spouse , children , peers etc can make wonders (2+2 = 5) or can make your life miserable ( 2 + 2 = 3 ). It’s people power that makes the difference !
From morning since wake up untill the night we sleep, what is the one activity we do non stop is to either create / maintain the relationships with the components of the external world.
Have a good relations & your day will be rocking at home /office. Vice versa is also true. Then how to create / maintain superb relationships ?
1) Expect less ( or nothing at all if you are Saint )
2) Don’t hear but listen.
3) Don’t judge fast to someone unless you have all the information about his decision , action & inaction.
4) Give ‘space’ to other person. The bird in cage dies faster than the bird in jungle with voluntary flying.
5) Patience is the art one need to practise . Immediate expectations kills relations faster.
6) Go in his shoes to understand what he “means ” than what he “said”.
7) Be supportive & not just problem finder. Human being tend to remember the support you have given during their down time.
8) Don’t be more emotional ( I am not insane but I mean it, Positive “detachment” is what I am talking about in case of you are possessive & eventually harms yourself )
9) Be humble & kind ( but please don’t lose your self esteem )
10) Selfless love always wins !
How many OF YOU ,believes above theory , please share your views in comment below.