Pretty strange topic huh? Here I wanna share with you about what I have learnt from my 3 months old daughter which I have not even learnt from Big so called “Success” seminars or “How to” books. My 3 months old daughter has became my mentor. So what I learnt ………..
1) No grudges :
Being an adult , we all know that as we grow we keep increasing grudge about someone at office or home. But my daughter has no grudge against anyone.
(Only if we can “let go” things , we can be more happy than ever before. )
2) No shame / hesitation of learning new things :
She keeps learning new things eg. Touching objects , watching moving stuff even tv.
( The paradox is more we become adult , more we keen to hesitate to learn new things and accept status quo.)
3) No anger against ….if something doesn’t happen in her way / no expectation :
If something doesn’t happen her way , she may show anger on face but it wont last more than 30 seconds.
(This is very crucial considering as adult we keep expecting the things, if it happens, we are happy , if not then we stop trying or get dissatisfied. )
4) Progress even step by step :
She keeps progressing , staring from doesn’t know anything to slowly watch, touch and now she flip back-front. Right now she is trying to lift her up to crowl. ( How many times we stop progressing only because we dint get success in certain attempts. )
5) No Bias & No Judgement :
She , at her age, no bias and has no judgement against something.
( The most common mistake any human being can do is to judge others)
6) Smile & Love :
Hahahaa, She smiles & she loves ….when I see her smile I literally forgets all my aches & pain….( I think for this I need not to give explanation coz love is immortal ) yes , if only we all as human race starts loving all and stop hating, the world would have been better place to live.
Last but not the least, daughters are more adorable & best creation of God. Hug them , love them, nurture them , make them strong. Let them live their own life !
( Those readers, who are reading this post and have daughters to them, must be having tears and that’s best compliment for my blog.)